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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 18.06.2025 00:13

How does one succeed in life?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Ask yourself:

What do you like about McDonald's?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Is TikTok becoming a platform for soft porn?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Why are Trump supporters so incredibly stupid?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Hangs out with loser friends.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Why do some people hesitate to say 'I love you' even after their partners have said it first? How can one interpret this behavior from their loved ones?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

What I need from you?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Why do liberals and Democrats think it’s “ironic” for Donald Trump to say “We have to get back to law and order”?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

What are some alternatives to wearing a bra? Why do some women feel pressure to wear bras even though there may not be any benefits?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Does not procrastinate.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

If my boyfriend watches porn, does it mean he doesn’t think I’m good enough? If I am good enough, why does he still watch? Am I not beautiful enough?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

What were some things that the ancient Greeks excelled at compared to the Romans?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Social Security's 2026 COLA Has an Unpleasant Surprise in Store for Retirees - The Motley Fool

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Why are there so many single moms in America?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

That's it for today.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Why cant I feel anything in my sleep? I cannot even feel myself moving, breathing, and swallowing saliva! I cannot even hear anything, not even my alarm! Some people that I've been with says that I'm moving a lot in my sleep, how can I stop it?

Making more friends is a goal.

Procrastinates a lot.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Living to your full potential is a goal.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?